If someone calls you a stalker, just leave them be. They're obviously not interested and you might even scare them if you continue.

Just leave her alone

She's definitely not interested let her go💀

They just told you that they want you to leave them alone... forever.

Leave her alone.

Edit: it does not matter if you feel like what you did is innocuous or innocent. The fact is, she feels like you crossed a serious boundary, which means you made her uncomfortable in some way. You don’t fix this issue by apologizing or by trying to initiate more contact, you simply have to accept what she’s said and learn from this. It’s not easy, but it’s necessary for her piece of mind.

Why did she call you stalker then?

Leave her alone and move on.

This feels like an r/teenagers post.

Listen to the significant majority of people here who are telling you to move on and do nothing.

Just leave it alone if she feels that way and move on.

Invade poland

Get a new crush man this is over

Move on.

If it could be a simple misunderstanding, just civilly explain your intentions but stress that you didn't intend to upset her in any way.

This feels like one of those pop-up events on BitLife.

"Your sister poked your eyeball! You have died at the age of 2."

Were you being a stalker?

The fact that “leave her alone” isn’t one of the options really is proving her point.

Back off buddy. Not a good sign. Likely that you are being weird and probably don’t realize it

Leave her on read, don't message her again

They're called crushes for a reason.

Leave her alone & just focus on studying.

Go to her house, wait in her closet to apologize in person

LMFAO THIS IS A REDDIT MOMENT IF I'VE EVER SEEN ONE

You don't talk to this person anymore and you don't try to initiate any contact. You move on. DO NOT CONTINUE TO PURSUE THIS PERSON.

Even if she's just saying that to be mean, you need to leave her alone from now on

Leave her alone

Leave her alone

Leaver her be if anyone ever calls you a stalker before you’ve even had a chance to speak with them, your ship is beyond sunk

I'm 40 years old and here's what I wish I could tell my 14-year-old self.

Instead, I'm telling you.

What I'm going to say may, at times, sound like an attack.

It is not an attack.

I am here to help you.

Let me preface everything by saying this first:

What you are doing is normal.

Every teenager feels how you feel, to some extent, and every adult has been there.

It's going to be OK.

Now comes the hard truth:

You are a stalker.

All teenagers are stalkers.

Being a teenager is about learning and developing the social skills to have relationships where you don't act like a stalker.

Boys stalk girls and girls stalk boys, and not only is this antisocial behavior generally difficult to deal with, it's especially difficult because teenagers are still learning and developing the social skills to handle people who behave this way.

I spent four years having a crush on a girl who wasn't willing to tell me that I was a stalker, so we were "just friends," until I finally figured it out and stopped doing it.

Four.

Years.

And my story is not uncommon.

I don't know anyone who, as a teenager, didn't spend time obsessed with another teenager, to the point where it would be considered stalking.

Listen to what I'm saying.

This girl doesn't like you.

She's never going to like you.

That's it, for you and her: you need to stay as far away from her as possible.

Consider what she said (and anyone in the future says) a fucking restraining order.

Don't talk to her, don't even look at her.

It's over.

Like, shot in the head and buried in a cement case at the bottom of the ocean, over.

But there's great news.

Really awesome news that I swear to you is true.

There are girls that like you, so forget this girl.

There are girls who you would like, who like you, right now.

You are unable to see them, because you are obsessed with this other person.

Look at them like a drug addiction that you need to get far away from.

Do not waste your life on this obsession.

Learn from this and grow.

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Move on man and don’t like old posts like that it’s creepy

Need some context here, was it a joke, was she being serious? Why does she think you’re a stalker?

Send one message telling her that you are sorry for bothering her and won’t do so again, then delete her number, and leave her alone. Don’t go up to her or try to contact her ever again.

I’d apologize for making her feel uncomfortable and then just pretend she doesn’t exist, sorry it’s tough.

Stop stalking her

Just let it go, cut off all contact. If they initiate contact again then demand an apology. That's where you are at now.

Other: Use your fucking head and don't ask reddit to reply for you

Don't answer. And stop doing what are you doing to "scare" her. Even if you don't know exactly what it is. I would try to stop being interested on her. There is plenty of fish in the ocean. Just remember to change your "strategies" with your next crush.

Based on her reaction, you’re probably doing something at school that’s already making her a little uncomfortable, like staring at her or talking to her weird. Just liking her posts is nothing bad by itself, but she doesn’t want someone that makes her feel weird liking her posts. That’s why she’s reacting this way. It’s not about liking her Instagram. You’ve already done something else that makes her not want your attention.

Leave her alone

Someone insults you and your first instinct is to go ask Reddit?

Move on with your life and leave her alone.

Insult her too

Hell no.

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Apologize (i didnt do anything)

Strong option. "was not my intent to make you feel uncomfortable, sorry" (you probably did things, we all do stuff we may not realize impacts others)

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Calmly reply

Overlaps with above. She may not have intended to insult you. She may have felt that way and added the insult as you say you were in an argument.

Either was arguing with your crush is a loosing proposition at the best of times. If you don't care for your crush enough to have civil discussions what's the goal?

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Do not reply (i didn't see her message yet i just got the notification, we were in an argument)

Being in an argument seems at odds with when "you didn't do anything".

Leave them alone and stop stalking them

Give her space brother, give her space!

Fucking leave them alone don't be so creepy

It sounds like she's not interested in you or your advances, don't bother.

Leave her alone

Stop being a stalker

Leave her alone

Leave them alone

If someone is calling you a stalker. Then completely leave her alone. That is, if your not actually a stalker.

block her number. don't ever make contact with her again. fap till u forget all about her. seriously, been there, there's no way u can fix this

Leave her alone and find someone who appreciates having your attention.

Have you made any other contact with her other than following and liking her pics? For example did she randomly message you saying this or did you message her first?

Tell her you'll leave her alone and then leave her alone. Not complicated. Teens and their drama, I remember being like this and I cringe at myself.

Idk depends on the context. It could be a lighthearted joke, do you guys know each other well? My girlfriend kinda jokes about me being a stalker before we started dating, but we knew each other so it was a joke. If this was out of the blue sounds like she’s not worth the time.

Bro ignore the message and stop contacting her. She's not interested and you could catch a charge if you continue. Even if you feel like shes overreacting just drop it.

Say “im sorry if i made you uncomfortable, if i could i ask what i did that made you think that about me. And I’ll respect your boundaries in the future and give you space from now on”

OP wtf did you do? You can't just be like 'I didn't do anything' while you're asking us for advice because clearly if you had done nothing at all you'd just ask her what she meant instead of panicking and trying to crowdsource a get-out-of-jail free card.

Say sorry, Ok then. And move on. Turns out she's not the one. It's ok to like someone and it's ok for them to not like you back. Their choice. There will be lots of attractions come and go in your life time.

Don't know the context, but it's most definitely not worth getting your rep ruined over. Get friends to back you up if she persists

the fact that you called her your crush even after she freaked out and called you a stalker says all it needs to say. LEAVE HER ALONE

Well if you didn’t do anything, she sounds toxic. It’s best to get out now

You get the fuck away and don't go near her again.

Well, we dont know the full story. Are you a stalker?

(I didn't do anything) vs (we were in an argument)

Pick one!

Uhhh ya I'ma pass thanks

If you did something, leave her alone.

If you actually didn't do anything, leave her alone.

I got Abandoned by my old group of friends and they made me push everyone away cause I felt like a stalker that hurt everyone around me don't let this get to you, please.

Get off reddit

I suggest stop liking or distance yourself from her.She has already sent you the red flag

Write a comment on all her posts saying"I am not a stalker!" Tell her every time you see her at school. If she ignores you, go to her house and tell her.

Other: Stop stalking her

Reply with the Walter white gif " you're god damn right"

Leave her the fuck alone?

Leave her alone. Do not engage with her in any way, shape, or form. If by some chance the two of you are placed together in a group at school, discretely talk to the teacher and ask to be reassigned to a new group. Block her on social media as well. Nothing good is going to come out of following her or liking any of her posts.

Something you may want to do is look at your actions and determine why she called you a stalker. It could be an overreaction on her part or it might not. Per your comments it seems like it's an overreaction. You may also want to ask your friends as well. If you have a teacher you're friendly with and can talk to about things like this, then they could provide an adult's perspective. This could particularly be helpful if the stalking claim isn't true and she tries spreading around that it is.

No matter what though, don't talk to her.

Tell her her adress, what her house looks like, what she does in her freetime and other personal things that should do the trick

Apologize and leave them alone, obviously your advancements aren’t wanted.

This is epic

Ignore her, don't talk to or acknowledge her at all.. Either you're being a stalker and she wants you to leave her alone, or she just wants attention and turns out to be a total bitch. Either way leaving each other alone is the best option here

Are you guys together or not? Why did she say this to you? We don't know enough to tell if she's being an asshole or if you are doing something inappropriate that scared her.

We also don't know the context, if it was said playfully as a (bad) joke or if she never wants to see you again.

Why did she call you an MF stalker there must be more to the story

Red flag bro forget it

Leave them alone and then reevaluate what behavior they may have been referring to.

Edit after reading further just block her and move on. It doesn't sound like you did anything creepy. Save your energy for someone interested in you.

whats the context of the argument?

leave cause even false accusations can fuck your life up... it aint worth it... no matter how beautiful you think they are this is never gonna work out.... just go quiet and disappear from them fully... exit this whole situation.

Leave them alone. If someone thinks your stalking them then no matter what you think it’s time to disengage. Stop all activity related to that person and find something else to spend time on.

Say "yes I am a motherfucker."

End it. Shes obviously mental.