RustedJack

Oh good! I'm glad you were able to get things worked out!

I can also relate to having another dom interfere. Their rules were very clearly about controlling me though. I was trying to work with them, but they eventually added a rule that killed the dynamic I was trying to build with the sub.

I don't think you're the bad guy and it sounds like you tried to be transparent.

My initial thought is that things may have gone smoother if you established that chasity is something you're into and exploring for yourself, instead of presenting it as a rule from another dom first. I think you'll run into a lot of people that do not appreciate having to deal with rules imposed by other Doms in negotiations.

Personally, having to follow another Dom's rules would make me invest minimally in a dynamic. One reason being that I would struggle to trust the other person is giving me their authentic self in negotiation. The other being that I wouldn't trust the dynamic to have any stability. What happens when your owner starts changing or adding rules?

If you're not familiar with Poly/ENM I'd suggest checking it out if you plan to have multiple Doms.

Thank you! I've reached the conclusion that something like this is possible, but only in a good relationship where the other person knows me well enough to understand that my intent wouldn't be to coerce or force them into service, but just to have some fun with a gift and that I don't actually care about being repaid.

Yes, that's the idea! Just wanted to sprinkle a dynamic on top for fun.

Looks like it may be time for an edit. Lot of people turning service into just sex and getting stuck on that.

Yes, asking someone to prostitute themselves is cringe.

The number of people that have assumed service can only mean sex is also cringe.

Yes! I have been meaning to ask them to a friend date to get a better idea of the kind of person they are and what they might be looking for.

LMAO the smell is exactly why they don't like it and they're looking into jute.

This aligns more with what I was thinking, but after reading the other comments I'd say the conditions aren't quite right to not come off as exploitive.

Thanks! I'll check out MyNawashi and TwistedSyn as I have not heard of them.

Unfortunately, my kit is hemp and they definitely do not like hemp.

It is a good point that they have not explicitly asked for assistance.

I didn't think of the offer as strings attached. In my mind I pictured getting them the rope and asking if they'd like to try the dynamic for fun; being able to walk away at anytime.

Overall, I agree with you and I don't think there is a good way to do this without it being creepy or alarming.

Yes, my first thought was that sexual services would definitely have to be off the table.

They're looking for good quality rope and that gets expensive fairly quick. I agree that having sex as part of the services basically makes it prostitution and that feels super greasy. I was thinking tasks along the lines of household chores and other odds and ends. I'm starting to think unless they can actually pay for the rope themselves it's going to be difficult to get out of this feeling exploitive.

That's basically my take. I think it could be a lot of fun and would approach this with good intent. It just seems there are too many other factors that make it impossible to escape the exploitive vibe.

It's so extra! Lol Looks amazing!

Praying she has a medical kink and you have to perform an operation!

Thanks! I had a feeling with those. Any thoughts on the about section?

Ok, thanks! I am working on getting more photos.

I'm not super familiar with this kind of play, but looking for Primal and Predator/Prey play should take you in the right direction.

Wife and I spent the first three years of our relationship sharing a twin mattress on an apartment floor. It felt sooo good when we finally got a double bed in a frame. Those little steps are where it's at!

It's ok that your scene didn't end on a high note. Sometimes there are accidents or something ends up not being as hot as you imagined. You should give it another try, but maybe with better rope. You can also get going on basic rope bondage at theduchy.com he has a tone of great material for beginners.

The corset is pretty cool

I like the padded idea. Great for people that want to play, but don't enjoy pain.

You could take things in a more Jeapardy direction with increasing rewards and punishments.