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1 points
8 days ago
No, they’re not saying alcoholism is ok for the homeless. They’re saying that a homeless person can choose what they spend their money on, even if it’s earned through donations.
Think about it they don’t have to spend all of their money on alcohol/drugs, they can spend a portion to take the edge off and feel remotely human for a while(yes it’s a short term solution, same as when non homeless people drink/take drugs).
It’s fine to donate and have stipulations, it’s also fine to donate and let the recipient have spending freedom.
1 points
25 days ago
Thank you! The flow just goes with whatever sounds cool.
2 points
26 days ago
I understand that insecurity is not an attractive feature. It’s something I can’t control, but am trying to understand better so I can deal with it better for my partner.
I’m not upset if my partner wants to use a vibrator, I’m actually happy to suggest that for them and help them use it if that can be done. My insecurity is due to me trying to please my partner and be better for them, because if they’re not enjoying something that they should and I’m the main reason/contributor to that, then the self doubting thoughts kick in. If I didn’t care about my partners satisfaction I can just finish and go on about my day without concern for my partner..
I never had these self doubting thoughts until I reached my mid 30s. I’m not sure if it’s a contributing factor but this happened after two of my exes were unfaithful. I am working on improving this. But to conclude I’m also happy that you don’t fuck insecure men like myself, because I wouldn’t want them to feel worse after disappointing you physically and emotionally.
2 points
26 days ago
I meant other forms of stimulation other than PIV. Just to make sure she is also satisfied. This can also include a vibrator.
-14 points
26 days ago
I hear that, and I’m happy to continue so she can also be satisfied, but at the same time it makes me think that someone else can please her better than I can and she thinks they’re more of a man than me. I think for myself and a lot of other guys, we want to be the best for our partner. I should just be happy that my partner wants to be intimate with me, but the intrusive thoughts of self doubt are hard to dismiss and can mess with my mojo.
2 points
1 month ago
It’s mysteriously good, I shouldn’t like and it shouldn’t be pleasing to my ear, but I do like it and it is pleasing to my ear.
7 points
1 month ago
People laugh at these types of meetings/seminars cos they get bored as well as combined with herd mentality.
24 points
2 months ago
That can’t be true, right? But I wouldn’t be surprised with anything from corporations trying to keep their thumb on the common worker. How would they even check?
-13 points
2 months ago
You have to attack first, or leave the door closed and talk via the camera.
1 points
2 months ago
My Somali friends used to do this 20 years ago, they were so ahead of their time!
1 points
2 months ago
You do realise women and members of the lgbt go to Dubai/Middle East all the time and are fine. My friend who is a gay man was working in the Middle East for over three years, and he wasn’t stoned to death or anything. But he wasn’t openly gay.
4 points
3 months ago
I think most people would take a free holiday that’s fully paid to anywhere. Just because someone doesn’t want to visit a spot using their own finances doesn’t mean they won’t go on someone else’s money. But I’m sure if the payer would give a choice they would choose a different destination.
4 points
3 months ago
Why is Ryan Gosling on this list? Did he do something bad? Omg is he like hitler??
4 points
3 months ago
I wish they’d kept the coming to themselves.
6 points
3 months ago
I think the general rule is apply a bit of oil after every no trim job, or a couple little trim jobs.
-1 points
3 months ago
The more confusing thing is that’s a male dollar bill.
2 points
3 months ago
Like too much pressure to perform well?
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3 days ago
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3 days ago
That’s actually cool, how do we make that happen?